The condom Guide really

Monday, June 22, 2009 |

You want the unadulterated joy of steamy sex. Nice thought, but it isn't safe. Condoms are the only kind of contraception that protect you from both pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.



While you and your partner think you have been doing everything right so far, you may be making mistakes you are not aware of. Here's what you should know:

Don't use two

According to Dr Hitesh Merchant, a sexologist, wearing two condoms increases the chances of them tearing. "This can happen because of friction. You may not even know until it's too late," he explains.

When to use

A condom shouldn't be put on before you start anything. "When the penis increases in size with an erection, the condom can tear. The right way is to put it on after he gets an erection," says Dr Merchant.

Expiry date

Latex condoms melt easily. Carrying them in your pocket or your wallet will expose them to body heat. In addition to this, Dr Kishan Gulati, a sexologist, recommends using fresh condoms. "If you have to store them, keep them in a cool, dry place such as the refrigerator. However, this can dry them, so don't store them for over three days," he explains.

Oil or water?

Most condoms are already lubricated. Extra lubrication can interfere with the latex and weaken it further. "An oil-based lubricant will make it slip. Water-based lubricants are a better idea," says Dr Gulati.

Opening option

You do not want to tear the condom accidentally, so don't use your teeth or a pair of scissors to open the packet. If you can't do it, ask your partner to help you.

These are the things you need to keep in mind before sex. There are precautions you can take afterwards as well. When your partner is pulling out of you, hold the opening of the condom to prevent it from slipping. You don't want anything to spill out.

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